Old listing of rules from virtual work as examples of what kind of rules there might be though rule are fluid and changing.
Mistress’ Rules to Follow:
(Rules are listed in no real order.)
1. Upon login, check for messages from Mistress. See if there is anything Mistress has left for you to do for her.
2. Watch for your Mistress to come on, come to where She is, and greet Her. Come in the manner of dress She has told you to wear. Kneel before your Mistress when you have rezzed enough to see Her. Once you have done so, greet others present, and then remain silent unless spoken to. In Mistress’ house when only household members are present, pets may talk freely unless told to do otherwise.
3. When others not of Mistress’ house pets will arrange themselves in the following manner: first pet will kneel on Mistress’ right side and behind her a bit. This is done so pet can protect Mistress, with pet’s life if necessary. Other pets will kneel before Mistress so as to see Mistress, thus allowing for signals to be given from Mistress instructing pet to do something. Watch for these signals.
4. pet’s collar will be worn at all times and can only be removed with Mistress’ permission and is to be returned promptly to it’s place. Mistress' tattooed marking is always worn. In any place in SL.
5. Mistress is to receive open and honest communication from her pets. Open discussions are allowed in Mistress’ house when only those of Mistress’ house are present. Communicate with mistress often. No bad language.
6. Request shall begin with "If it pleases, my Mistress, …..?"
7. Do not speak with others unless you have asked and received Mistress’ permission to do so. pet shall not whisper (talk in IM) to others while Mistress is present. If pet receives an IM from someone, pet may said “wait, pet is with Mistress and will ask for permission to speak” and then ask Mistress for permission to respond to the IM. The same would be true if Mistress has sent pet on an errand. When on an errand, slave is working for Mistress and will behave as if Mistress is standing with pet.
8. No portion of a conversation with Mistress or rules can be copied and sent to anyone other than Mistress. Conversations you have with others can be copied to Mistress for her review or clarification, but no other person.
9. Remember to be descriptive in your conversation and thoughts. The thoughts of a pet are often posted in the room; keep these respectful of your Mistress and her house.
10. Mistress’ pets serve only Mistress unless She tells them to do otherwise. If another is granted to be on your collar and spend time regularly with pet, Mistress still superceeds what the others might say. pet is to follow Mistress' rules at all times and may politely ask the other to speak with Mistress about it.
11. The pet’s duty is to figure out what pleases Mistress. A pet should not desire love of his Mistress, but rather must desire only the please his Mistress may obtain from feeling that love. The Mistress’ pleasure is the pets reward.
12. Ask permission to leave computer. If leaving the computer for more than five minutes inform Mistress when you will return and log out. If a RL emergency occurs, type “911” and log out. Upon your return explain to Mistress what happened, do not make Mistress have to ask you for an explanation.
13. pets have Mistress’ permission to dance with others in public dance areas when Mistress is not online and have friends. Other touch with people is not permitted unless Mistress gives permission first. Do not go into others homes without Mistress’ permission. Never go into a Master or Mistress' house without Mistress there with you. Do not assume more than this is ok. Ask to do something else before acting upon it.
14. Hide from others if you wish, but not your Mistress.
15. To touch Mistress is a privilege and does not have to occur unless it pleases Mistress. It is a priviledge to be with Mistress and in Her house. Remember this at all times.
16. pets will have no alternative characters in SL. If pet does have pre-existing alternative character in SL Mistress is to know these names as well. The use and reason for the alternate character is to be discussed with Mistress. Mistress is to know when any alternate character is on (show on Mistress’ friends list). Mistress can call pet from these alternate characters, if they exist.
17. Strive as a pet to have the mindset of utter devotion, absolute obedience, and service Mistress without hesitation. These are the duties of a pet.
18. Obey Mistress. Be respectful of others, but obey only Mistress or those she places on your collar.
19. Never remove Mistress from your collar.
20. Add below to pet’s profile, who is collared, will display the following messages on the 2nd LIFE tab in the ABOUT section (Center all the things between stars in the window):
There is a longer list of the common rules in BSDM which has over a hundred things. If interested ask me about them.
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*** <slave name> ***
*** Collared <date> ***
*** Restricted and reserved ***
*** House of my Mistress Kati Evans ***
***also subject to <name> ***
i am for my Mistress’ pleasure only. My Mistress allows me to dance with others in public places and make friends. If you want anything more of me, please speak with my Mistress first. If you have a problem with me please speak directly to my Mistress regarding. Pet can not be collared, captured, or bound without my Mistress’ permission.
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HOW TO PLEASE A WOMAN
…and provide what she needs in her core being and will please your Mistress
Closeness: I feel closeness with you (face to face and heart to heart) when you:
• hold my hand
• hug me
• are affectionate without sexual intentions
Openness: I feel openness with you (you are not secretly mad) when you:
• share you feelings
• Tell me about your day and challenges
• Talk without harshness, guardedness, or grunting.
Understanding: I feel you understand me (empathize with me) when you:
• listen to me (know when to give advice and not to solve my problems)
• repeat back what I sometimes say so I know you’re hearing me
• express appreciation for my contribution and roles saying, “I couldn’t do your job.”
Peacemaking: I feel at peace with you (issues are resolved) when you:
• admit you are wrong and apologize by saying “I am sorry” (a turn on to a woman) “Will you forgive me …..”
• keep the relationship up to date, resolve the unresolved, and don’t say “forget it”
• spend time together cuddling (with out sex) after a hurtful time (and pray together if that is your belief)
Loyalty: I feel a loyalty from you (complete commitment) when you:
• don’t look at other women
• speak only positive things about me before family and friends; no airing dirty laundry
• do not bring up splitting up, rather that you are committed to the relationship
Esteem: I feel esteemed by you (treasured above others) when you:
• verbally support and honor me in front of others, especially family
• praise me for what I do for you
• value my opinion in the gray areas; not wrong just different from you
These things will not come to your naturally and feel foreign, but they are to a woman like a breath of fresh air in a smoke filled room. It brings life when she feelings like she is dying and will draw any woman to you. It will take practice, but is well worth the effort you put in making these things a habit in your life to give the women in you life. They will be thankful for it.
Note: the first words spell COUPLE to help you remember.
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